There are a few threads on Cross-Validated that might be of interest:
Including this one which has a couple of R package suggestions:
WRT to the code, would it be possible for you to use a sample of your data (or dummy data) to make a small self-contained reproducible example?
It will help us help you if we can be sure we're all working with/looking at the same stuff.
install.packages("reprex")
If you've never heard of a reprex before, you might want to start by reading the tidyverse.org help page. The reprex dos and don'ts are also useful.
What to do if you run into clipboard problems
If you run into problems with access to your clipboard, you can specify an outfile for the reprex, and then copy and paste the contents into the forum.
reprex::reprex(input = "fruits_stringdist.R", outfile = "fruits_stringdist.md")
For pointers specific to the community site, check out the reprex FAQ.